Hello,

I’m writing you because you directly addressed me in the comments section on [...blog]. Just as I clicked on your name and found your website to contact you, you could have done the same and expressed your feeling to me yourself instead of taking a shot at me in the comments. I don’t appreciate you doing that. [blog owner] did what he felt he needed to do, and that should have been that. Furthermore, the matter was between me and him and had nothing to do with you. I feel what you did, knowing that I could not respond back to you in the comments, was underhanded and shady.

I did not come at [blog owner] with an axe, and I was not angry. And since when does not agreeing with someone equate to disrespecting them? That’s a rhetorical question, don’t answer it. I disagreed with [blog owner], but I did not disrespect him. I simply responded to him as bluntly as he did to me. I matched his tone, that’s all. It’s not my problem he couldn’t handle it. You don’t know me, or anything about me, or how I meant my posts to sound, so please keep your admonishments to yourself.

Goodbye.

Based on that letter, I could write a book about this woman. For the record, the man who owns the blog was extremely patient and respectful towards her. However, he did not agree with her and it IS his blog, right?  She went after the guy with a verbal axe.

This is what I find interesting. Who is she to tell me what I can and cannot respond to on a public blog?  If it’s public, you can respond to it.  She did not email the man. She spoke to him on his blog.  That made it fair game to respond.

Now this is my point, though. Just looking at the “I gotta have the last word” mentality of this woman, displayed on the man’s blog as well as in her message to me, I have a feeling that she has either been fired or been close to being fired from jobs in the past based on her mouth.

This is the type of woman who will chase a man away because no man in his right state of mind is going to deal with that mouth.  In fact, out of curiosity I went to her blog (which is apparently new) and sure enough, she mentioned being single.

I’m not saying that every single woman is single because of her mouth but I am saying that I believe that the woman above is single due to her mouth.

I KNOW she is reading this because she is on a mission at this point. And so, Miss BigMouth, since you are reading, I will offer you some unsolicited advice:

a.  Put a lock on your mouth and take on the “meek and quiet spirit” that God speaks of.

b.  Learn how to disagree in such a way as to gain friends as opposed to building up foes. Foes are of no use to you. Friends are priceless.

c.  The blogosphere is all about networking. No man will survive alone on an island. You are starting off on the wrong foot. Your goal as a blogger should be to meet other bloggers and perfect the art of disagreeing in a pleasant manner.  You never know who can help you in the future so why burn bridges—or worse, destroy them prior to them even being built.

d.  Break the habit of tracking people down to “tell them off”.  It’s not your duty in life to tell everyone off.  That is the kind of stuff that will get you fired from jobs and chase your man out of the nearest exit.

e.  Learn to practice silence sometimes. I’m 100% positive that when you are in a group, your mouth is all over the place and you drive your poor friends and family up a wall.

f.  Chill out, girl. Stop taking life so seriously. Gee!

But to prove there are no hard feelings, I’ll take you back to the Old School. I dedicate this one to you.  PRESS HERE