By: Lynn
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Although there are some men out there who can sho ’nuff cook, for the most part, women are the ones who control the skillets in the kitchen.
Last month, after my husband said to me for about the 3rd time that month, “Hey, let’s order Chinese”, I said to him: “No, I’m going to cook us a decent meal”.
It was like an epiphany. Although I am certainly busy, the truth of the matter is, we all can create the time to do the things we sincerely want to do in life. And cooking is a most important function. In some ways, after he mentioned “Chinese” again, I felt that I had been mistreating him.
Truth of the matter is, there is no meal like a home cooked meal made from love. And there is no meal healthier than a home cooked meal. No meal is cleaner than a home cooked meal. As the cook, I can and do control all of that!
Part of the problem for me was that I had allowed cooking to become a mundane, boring task. In reality, cooking is a ministry. Seriously. As the cook, you control the health of your family. My husband does not eat breakfast and he skips lunch. He eats at home during the week. I’m almost always home before he gets in, so there really is no reason why I cannot cook. I certainly find the time to blog. I find time for my sorority. I find time for my church. Why can’t I find…or make the time to cook a decent, healthy, delicious meal for my husband and myself?
Growing up, I cannot remember one day in which my mother did not have a delicious dinner prepared for my father and her six children. She did it in spite of working one, and sometimes two jobs per day. And at one point she also was in nursing school. Yet, there was never a day skipped on meals. Not once. My father sometimes would cook but primarily it was her.
You know what I did? I went out recently to Borders Bookstore and searched out my favorite chef’s cook book. That chef is G. Garvin. His meals are quick and easy to follow. He has several books out but the one I picked up is called Turn up the heat with G. Garvin. I had been watching his show for several years and along the way picked up some great recipes from him. I love his non-intimidating style.
What his recipe book does is give me great and unusual ideas. I have cooked at least four different dishes from that cookbook thus far. My husband has even helped me. The meals last us for two days. The only changes I make is on the fat content. I never put in as much oil or butter as he calls for but the meals are equally as delicious without the extra fat and my husband and I are just thrilled.
I’m not joking when I tell you that what we’ve been eating this past few days since I bought that cookbook is better than anything I’ve ever eaten at a restaurant. No joke. The recipes are easy and crazy delicious.
I love the fact that G. Garvin’s recipes are opening up for me a whole new world and taking me beyond just “regular meals”. I’m making restaurant quality meals now. Using fresh Rosemary and Basil, stuff I would not generally use in a fresh form.
I purchased and used some Saffron a couple days ago. Saffron is the most expensive spice in the world but you know what? My husband and I are worth the most expensive spice in the world. That Saffron made all the difference in one of the meals I cooked.
Shout out to G. Garvin. I love your delicious recipes. You have made cooking fun for both me and my husband. And most of all, we are eating home made meals cooked with clean hands and a pure heart.
Cooking is a ministry, ladies. Get back to it!

Here’s one of my favorite Thanksgiving recipes for people who want an alternative to candied yams. I am a country cook so I can’t tell you exact amounts:
Okay, a couple of crab cake recipes!

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