By: Lynn Green
If you PRESS HERE, you will see the article that Deputy Diva wrote which shares the sad ending regarding Christine Betty. Hicktown has followed the Kilpatrick – Beatty case for the past year and with sarcasm, referred to Kwame as Hicktown’s “favorite” mayor.
The Lord has impressed it upon my heart to revisit this issue of adultery and the “other woman”. That tells me that many, many of the 10,000 who visit Hicktown every month are in the midst and thicket of adultery. That’s a lonely, sad place to be. I don’t care what anybody says. To be “second” all the time. Then to have to sneak around to meet with a man who puts his wife and family first, that has to be a lonely, sad place, emotionally.
Keep in mind that the Lord is not leading me to address men at all. So anyone who has a problem with that, see God. I follow His guide, His lead. He is impressing it upon me to speak directly to the women who are caught up in the sin of adultery.
GO HERE for the article I wrote last week on this very topic.
For now, however, I will quickly deal with Christine Beatty. This is a woman who had it all, in a sense. She is clearly attractive. Belongs to social groups such as the Delta sorority and I’m certain she was on many of the exclusive VIP lists in her town. She had a high profile job working as the mayor’s assistant. She was blessed with children and a husband. She had a good salary.
Knowing that he was a womanizer who used women like they were dogs. And knowing that Kilpatrick was one to literally cruise the city of Detroit at night seeking out more women to prey upon. And knowing that he was married and had children, she made an insane choice.
a. She chose to drop her drawers and hop into bed with a classless dog
b. She chose to ignore all of her marriage vows to bed down with a male skank
c. She chose to risk losing her family in favor of a trashy, slimeball
d. She chose to leave her husband and children, as she allegedly chose a married man named Kwame Kilpatrick over her own flesh and blood
Keep in mind that Christine made her choices while Kwame continued to live with and sleep with his own wife. He is STILL with his own wife. Apparently they have some type of spoken or unspoken understanding in their marriage whereby it’s fine with her that he sleeps around with whomever he so chooses. In any event, his wife is still with him and it does not appear that she plans to leave him any time soon.
Christine Beatty sowed vigorously into the filthy sin of adultery—sleeping with another woman’s husband even while that man continued sleeping with his wife as well as any number of other women—openly defying the press to expose him. He was bold, just like the devil is bold.
She risked all in an insane gamble with a vile loser and she consequently lost big. She wanted to go to law school. Not sure a law school will take her now. She wanted another woman’s husband. Kwame is still with his wife and has no plans to leave, obviously. She chose Kwame over her family. She chose to lie under oath time and time again. Now she is divorced and her husband reportedly has custody of the children.
What a tangled web we weave when first we seek out to deceive. That’s an old saying. And for Christine Beatty it rings true.
I actually feel bad for her now. And I feel bad for the thousands of women out there who are gambling everything they have for a no good man who cares nothing about them beyond using them for a sexual fling.
What woman would actually even want a man who would treat own wife in such a disrespectful manner? And what makes the “other woman” think he would no do her even worse?
Kwame ran roughshod over both his wife and Christine. And he will continue to run roughshod over anything that comes into his pathway because he is garbage.
If you are a woman caught up in adultery, you need to escape and the bible says that God will provide us an avenue by which to escape. Escaping the sin of adultery is EASY. Call that nutcase up and tell him it’s over. If necessary, change your number and cell phone. Stop responding to him. Don’t listen to him. He cares nothing about you beyond your sex organs. And that’s a fact.
Recite the following prayer (if you are ready to be released):
Father, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I come to you asking forgiveness of every sin I have comitted this week by thought, word or deed.
Lord, as you know, I have been lowering myself by sleeping with another woman’s husband. I desire to be freed of all feelings I have for that man and I ask you to free me right now. I repent of what I have done and am sincerely sorrowful for the pain I caused his wife and family. No longer am I willing to sow into filth and destruction. This Christine Beatty case has shown me my end. Forgive me, Father. I repent from my heart and I turn away from all sin and wickedness. I promise from this day forward to love and respect myself enough to wait to meet the right man for me. In Jesus name I pray and do give thanks. AMEN
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And let the church say, “AMEN”!
Thank you for sounding the alarm again.
Lady D
So true. Women wake up!
Excellent advise for those women caught up in adultery, but sadly some are too proud of what they are doing to feel any shame or remorse.
I didn’t follow that series, the Real Housewives of Atlanta. I happened to catch 2 episodes of it though over the holiday weekend. There is this character on there who is not even a housewife, she is the mistress of a married man. She proudly boasts about the designer items she can buy with this man (and his wife’s) money.
She can’t say his name, because he is married and obviously is trying to keep the wife from knowing, even though she is publicly flaunting her relationship with this other woman’s husband on national television, so she calls him “Big Poppa.”
She ‘aspires’ to be a singer, but sadly can’t carry a tune and is content with living as a kept woman. It is rumored that somehow since the show aired, Big Poppa’s wife discovered what was going on and ended the relationship and Kim is apparently trying to find the next married sugar daddy to pick up and pamper her where Big Poppa left off.
What gets me is how can these women expect to ever have meaningful relationships in their lives when they publicly choose to live as the town whore? No self respecting man would ever commit to someone who was plastered all over the news and television as someone’s jump off…. especially if that woman was married herself, as the man will always wonder if she will cheat on him, just like she did her previous husband.
And funny that this article should appear today. A friend informed me that she just discovered her husband has a mistress and he apparently lied about visiting ‘relatives’ for Thanksgiving and was holed up with his mistress. She is in the process of setting his things outdoors, so he can take them back to the mistress’ when he returns to what USED to be his home.
I too have followed the whole sorry saga of Mayor Pimp Daddy and his harem…I agree that CB made some horrible choices and is now reaping the consequences of them but I can’t help but feel sorry for the woman especially since she now realizes that she was played like a piano by John Legend or Alicia Keys. She is really looking pitiful now…..hearing how he was sniffing after all these other women. I also started out feeling sorry for Carlita K. but I must say she is making my head spin…..that Negro would have to go, poof, be gone, vanish! I have to wonder if I were in her situation, would having small children be enough to keep me in that marriage-at some point, you have to save your dignity and your spirit-I hope that it is not “stuff”, “pseudo-prestige” keeping her there because she does not have a man for a husband, she has a little boy who never learned that the world was not made to satisfy his every desire. I hope she’s staying healthy because I don’t think he cares at all for her health or his for that matter.
and Diva, take care of your friend….although she is initially shocked into action, go girl, there will come a time when she experiences the hurt that all of this deceit has caused…….trusting that she will be alright…..hate hearing sisters go through nonsense like this…..
Thanks for the encouragement twtyprls.
10,000 hits a month!!! I guess people just read and keep going.
On any blog, less than 1% of the readership will ever sign.
They read, but they don’t “keep on going”. They return as lurkers again and again and again. And that’s fine by me.
My SiteMeter is never locked and in fact is an open book for anyone to check out if they doubt the numbers I quoted.
Your sin will find you out. I hope she and others who walk in adultery will realize that it’s a trap. Put your trust in God. He will send your husband. Remember that our sin will find you out. Mrs Beatty will tell you.